Anyone here one and done after a miscarriage? Either by choice or not.

I was convinced I was one and done. Then after my son was around 2.5 I changed my mind, husband was on board too. Got pregnant, had a miscarriage. Now we’re back to being one and done.

A good friend of mine got pregnant (with her 3rd) around the same time I was pregnant with my 2nd/miscarried child. She is now almost in her third trimester and I’m just feeling some type of way about it. I told her I was back to being one and done and she kept asking me questions like, are you sure you won’t regret that, does he have any cousins (he doesn’t), do you have friends with kids his age (I don’t).

I don’t really know what I’m looking for by posting this. My friend is a great person but her being pregnant successfully and her questions to me just have me feeling guilty that I’m bringing up a child “alone”.

Anyone else one and done and also have no cousins or friends with kids your child can play with? He does have friends from school but he’s only 3. I’m making new mom friends so I’m hopeful it won’t matter much as he gets older.

EDIT: Thank you to everyone who responded. I truly do feel better after reading through everyone’s shared experiences. If anyone lives in CT and wants a new mom friend, send me a message!