Lads holiday vs. Couples break. 31F/33M What would you do?

Me 31F and my partner 33M were eager to plan our next holiday after landing back in the UK a couple of months back. We were thinking Amsterdam for a few days late Nov/early Dec as a Christmas break. Unexpected events meant money was tight and so we agreed we’d instead stay in the UK and find a low budget weekend break. We’ve also stopped any expensive dates to save money. I was fine with all of this as life happens and longer term we’re saving for a house so it’s worth the compromise. Now he’s told me he’s planned a lads holiday abroad all inclusive for 7 nights using the last of his paid leave before he’s booked any days off for our weekend away. I know why I’m upset but I’m struggling to get my thoughts together. Some others perspective on this would be great. What would you do in this situation?