some r&b songs about stress, anxiety, letting things go

as in, things in life are out of my control, not even worth caring. Why care. What's the point in caring. Life's shit but at least there's nothing I can do abt it.

Also just about wanting to escape, stress or growing, anxiety in general.

LMAO idek how to describe it other than that. Off the top of my head, i think of bag lady, window seat by erykah badu, and good days, broken clocks by sza.

I have zero preferences in terms of which artists just give me your suggestions!! for reference i also like dancehall, jamaican reggae and rap. These are all totally unrelated genres but still