Coping strategies for short men

How do short men cope with their existential dilemma?

When I was a young adult - I used to watch copious amounts of porn to numb my brain. What happened as a result was I had low energy levels and I accomplished far less than I would’ve had I not. These days the compulsion to seek adult content is quite low maybe because I’m nearly 30. I’m also on finasteride for hair loss and feel low libido. Interestingly I rarely pay attention to women even in public and I oftentimes try and try to avoid interacting with them unless I absolutely need to - usually in a workplace setting.

I need healthy copes like gym, mediation, journaling and being engaged. What do you guys do? An idle man’s mind is a devils workshop as they say. What copes will help you get rich and stay fit - correlating with higher self-esteem?