Most people are boring
I have agoraphobia and achieved a lot of goals to get rid of it this year. Even went to a club alone. But after this success I realized that I find most people absolutely boring. I’m very open and don’t judge people by their appearance but when smalltalk starts I’m out.
As most people like to meet new people this has to be my own problem but how do I solve it??? Maybe I should become a better conversation starter to get over smalltalk soon but then?
Is it too personal to ask for their job right at the beginning? I can mostly get some topics out of that.
What is a good topic/wuestion to start that is not too personal but not smalltalk?