Legitimate Q: Why do servers suck and why should we be ok with it?

Just help me understand. Early Access to me = the game has bugs, sometimes it glitches, sometimes it crashes. This game is far less functional than that and they’ve almost raised $1B.

I’m talking hours every week wasted queuing in or dealing with just BASIC functionality and the more we look into this, it seems like they’re causing it. Throttling servers etc.

Am I just stupid? If I am just help me understand why this is normalized/ok in this community when it feels like such a low bar vs other games (early access or otherwise). I’m not an engineer