WHY AM I ATTRACTED TO FEMININE GUYS??

I don’t know what it is it’s not like a choice I just always end up attracted to them. Or idk how to explain it they don’t have to act feminine but they have feminine energy??? My friend literally asked if I’m secretly a lesbian 😭 IDK ITS JUST SOMETHING ATTRACTIVE ABOJT A MAN WHO DOESNT FALL FOR TOXIC MASCULINITY I GUESS???