My Theory On Why People Actually Hate on Libras š¤Ø
Iāve noticed that IN GENERAL, people either LOVE or HATE Libras... And honestly? My theory is that itās because we donāt play the social game the way they expect us to!
For one, i think most people assume weāre easy to manipulate because weāre so easy going and agreeable, so they think they can nudge us into doing whatever they want, and when they realize we actually have boundaries... they are shook, SUDDENLY weāre "two-faced"š¤£ Like no, you just underestimated me... and they hate that they weren't able to read us or get their way with us!
Also we are loyal to a default but we just donāt like to take sides in a fight unless we have all the informationš© We need every detail, every angle, time to reflect, and THEN weāll decide who is right š But by the time we do, everyoneās already picked a team and they're mad at us for not jumping in sooner.... Is that really betrayal?? I feel like people misunderstand that and just feel betrayed in those situations...
And yeah, we get along with everyone, sue us š but it's legit NOT in a fake way, it just happens ...but they can't relate to that so apparently, that makes people nervous and suspicious. If we get along with everyone that MUST mean we are "fake" otherwise there's no way, right?
But letās be real... i got the feeling that if we werenāt like this, people would hate us for something else. If we picked sides too quickly, weād be called judgmental. If we were harder to get along with, weād be ādifficult.ā Itās almost like people just donāt know what to do with usš
So tell me, if someone had a beef with you lately, what was the REAL reason? Was it something you actually did, or were you just misunderstood? š«