I need some advice from the girlies š
Was talking to a guy and really liked him. He lives an hour away tho so it was hard to meet up. After meeting up once irl and texting basically 24/7 for two weeks, he sent this message:
āHey, Iām sorry but I want to be completely honest with you. I think youāre amazing, you have a great heart, and I really enjoy talking to you, but I feel like I canāt really give you the time you deserve. Like this last week I feel like Iāve barely gotten to talk to you, and thatās not really fair. Maybe Iām taking this too seriously this early on but I realized that I probably shouldnāt be with someone right now. I would want you to be a priority, Iād want to be able to drive out to see you every week or something but I just canāt do that at this point, and thatās not fair. If you donāt hate me by then or find someone else you should let me know if you do end up going to [grad school in his city]ā
We stayed friends for a bit but after a week of continuing to text 24/7 it became too much for me without a commitment so I told him I was already planning to move to his city and that if he was ready by next fall then he should be the one to reach out and not me.
Itās been a couple months and I miss him a lot but also know I made the right decision for my heart. I canāt help but hope he feels more ready in the fall and reaches out but maybe Iām living in a cheesy romantic delusion so lmk š