I need some advice from the girlies šŸ˜­

Was talking to a guy and really liked him. He lives an hour away tho so it was hard to meet up. After meeting up once irl and texting basically 24/7 for two weeks, he sent this message:

ā€œHey, Iā€™m sorry but I want to be completely honest with you. I think youā€™re amazing, you have a great heart, and I really enjoy talking to you, but I feel like I canā€™t really give you the time you deserve. Like this last week I feel like Iā€™ve barely gotten to talk to you, and thatā€™s not really fair. Maybe Iā€™m taking this too seriously this early on but I realized that I probably shouldnā€™t be with someone right now. I would want you to be a priority, Iā€™d want to be able to drive out to see you every week or something but I just canā€™t do that at this point, and thatā€™s not fair. If you donā€™t hate me by then or find someone else you should let me know if you do end up going to [grad school in his city]ā€

We stayed friends for a bit but after a week of continuing to text 24/7 it became too much for me without a commitment so I told him I was already planning to move to his city and that if he was ready by next fall then he should be the one to reach out and not me.

Itā€™s been a couple months and I miss him a lot but also know I made the right decision for my heart. I canā€™t help but hope he feels more ready in the fall and reaches out but maybe Iā€™m living in a cheesy romantic delusion so lmk šŸ™ˆ