How NOT to write a man-written woman

Hi, i always hear talking about women that are “obviously written by a man”. What are some things to do not to fall in the stereotype of the “her voice barely above a whisper” or “her forms showing through her baggy clothes”? Are there any more stereotypes to avoid? I like to write romantic short stories, but i dont wanna fall in stupid or offensive stuff that has been written a thousand times. Thanks yall