Homophobic African parent

Is it gay now to wear a headband? So I’m a gay male yes I am and I wore a headband out today and my mom started calling me homophobic slurs. And yes of course she have to worry about what other people think and say “oh you want people to think your a faggot?” That’s exactly what she said when I came inside the house just for wearing a headband? And she knows I’m gay but just do this because she worries so much about what people think and just want to put me down because I can’t do certain things because of course in a African home you have to worry about what people think about your son. Ts is annoying and I’m just tired of it nobody give a fuck about what people wear like?