Don't accept last minute dates!

In the very beginning stages of dating, I never accept a date if the person made it the day of. I find it inconsiderate that they didn't plan in advance. A lot of the times I have learned that their original plans fell through and they wanted to quickly fill it in with something else.

I used to be the type of person to cancel my own plans and immediately say yes to whoever asked me on a date. I have learned to put myself first and still say no even if I had no plans that night. For me, I want someone to think ahead of time versus being an afterthought.

This only applies to the very beginning stages of going on dates. I also totally understand if you have really demanding jobs where you're on call but that's not most people.

Say no to the last minute date and offer another day!